So....hmmm....most of us are aware of bad fashion mistakes. Bless Dwight's heart.
When it comes to a wedding, the fashion mistakes may be more subtle. Fashion etiquette may or may not be important to you. If not, talk to your fiancee; it may be important to your bride and family. Remember, the pictures last a lifetime. Decisions on what you wear should be based on kindness and consideration. Future grooms, you will probably think more about this outfit than any other you will wear!
[caption id="attachment_3522" align="aligncenter" width="344"] Emily Post Weddings, 1963[/caption]
The time of day dictates what you wear, as well as the season and location of the wedding. Emily Post wrote an etiquette book in 1922 and it is considered to be the standard when considering what to wear to a wedding; however, we are in a constantly changing world so consider using her rules as a preliminary guideline. Also, consider what the bride is wearing when determing which outfit to wear. You want to compliment her fashion choices.
If you are going for a formal look in a tuxedo, consider one of our formal bow ties. We suggest our Black Satin bow tie to be worn with tuxedos with satin lapels and our Black Faille Bow Tie to be worn with tuxedos that have grosgrain lapels. The white pique bow tie would look smashing with either tuxedo. And remember, for winged collars we can make fitted bow ties so that you don't have to have the bow tie hardware visible.
Now if you are getting married in July outside in Orlando at 3 p.m. and the wedding is semiformal, you may suffocate in a tuxedo. Linen suits are a better option.
One final tip. Remember - for almost every blazer or coat that is single breasted, you need to unbutton the bottom button!
**** Have any etiquette questions you would like us to answer? Please let us know! Audrey is not Emily Post, but she has been a bridesmaid in over 20 weddings, was married in 2004, and collects etiquette books. She will do her best to help
We are starting a new series here on the blog: Cordial Weddings! The posts will include real weddings, wedding etiquette, and groomsmen gift ideas, just to name a few.
Today we are featuring Jason and Erica from Nashville, Tennessee. When this lovely couple married last August, Jason wore our white pique bow tie. They married at Covenant Presbyterian Church (where Andy and Ellie have had the privilege of attending several times over the years) and held their reception at The Hermitage Hotel.
Why he bought a white pique bow tie for his wedding:
"As soon as Erika and I decided that I, as the groom, would wear full dress white tie for our wedding, I knew I had to do something special with my bow tie. For me, the tie is incredibly important because it is the centerpiece of a man's appearance. It is the anchor that ties the rest of his tuxedo, suit, or whatever else he is wearing together. I immediately knew that a rental bow tie would not do. Even an adjustable self-tie bow tie was not preferable. But given the constraints of the tradition of white tie, I couldn't just go anywhere for one. That's when I found The Cordial Churchman."
Given the style shirt Jason wore, the bow tie was visible around his neck since it did not have a collar. We made sure to size the tie to his measurements, instead of sewing in sliders. In our humble opinion, it looks great on him!
Congratulations, Jason and Erika, and thank you for sharing pictures from your wedding! The pictures were taken by Rachel Moore.
**If you would like TCC to make custom bow ties for your wedding, visit our online shop at thecordialchurchman.com or contact us at firstname.lastname@example.org